Tuesday, December 28, 2010

One Spoiled Girl Coming Right Up!!!

Well, I should have realized when Machelle's last post title was "The Need to be Girly" that something was amiss. Some of you may know that in the Bob Kay family, there are currently 10 grandsons and 0 granddaughters. We have two boys, my brother has 6 boys, and my sister just had twin boys. Machelle and I were pretty certain that another boy was on the way because our family really just doesn't produce girls.

Our world got turned upside down yesterday when the ultrasound tech said, "Oh, boy! There is no doubt here. It is definitely a girl!" I thought it was some kind of a joke and that my ears weren't working right. Machelle kind of let out a sigh like she had just been punched in the gut. Tyler said, "Dad, you are in trouble! It's not a boy!" (If he only knew how correct he really is....)

With a day for the shock to set in, I can honestly say that I am really pretty excited to have a little girl. I am scared to death of what will happen in 13 years when hormones go off the charts. Hopefully I can develop a good enough relationship with the little thing so that she doesn't completely hate me by then. I can't wait to harp on my boys (and use some of my dad's famous lines) about not hitting their sister because it's not ok for them to hit a girl.

Mom informed me that she already has some dresses purchased. Our fears are already becoming realized about this baby being spoiled! I guess I can't expect much else because mom has been waiting 15 years for a girl to come along. This is one of the outfits that we might bring her home in because she truly will be "One of a Kind" with the streak now being 10-1 instead of 11-0.


Hoping everyone's Christmas was full of family, giving, and the celebration of Christ's birth. Love you all!

Saturday, November 6, 2010

The Boys are Home


We were able to bring the Boys home after 3 long weeks in the NICU on October 31. Shannon dressed them up as Thing 1 and Thing 2.

Wednesday, October 13, 2010

New Babies!



Hip Hip Hooray! The boys that we waited 9 years for have finally arrived! Easton Andrew Hyer (4lbs 4oz) and Kohen Hawkins Hyer (5lb 12oz) were born on October 9th at about 10am via c-section. Shannon got admitted to the hospital on Weds with preeclampsia and by Saturday morning the doctors decided it was time for the little guys to come out. They were born at 33 1/2 weeks, so they will be in the NICU for several weeks until they are able to eat on their own. They are both doing really well and have already learned how to suck on binkies, so that's a great start. Shannon ended up in the ICU for a day to be monitored for pneumonia but is now on the mend and will hopefully be going home tomorrow!
In case the pictures don't do justice, it looks like both boys may end up with RED HAIR! Kohen's will probably be curly strawberry blonde and Easton's looks like it may be sort of auburn.

Tuesday, September 28, 2010

Horrible-Funny things kids say

Lets start with Dane and Jan's kids because mine are angels and don't say anything.

Mitch in church during fast and testimony meeting after a person testifying of truth declares "I know that I am hungry!!!!!"

Carson calling everyone flaggets. Which Jan pulled out the hot sauce to curtail.

And the all time favorite is Parker who in the innocence of youth could not pronounce his M's but replaced them with B's was yelling at Mitch in Sacrament meeting saying and I quote " STOP IT BITCH"

Now thats funny. Give Rhett a few more years and then hold on for dear life.


Friday, September 24, 2010

Don't Kill Me!

That is the phrase my two year old has begun to yell when things aren't going his way. For example:

When I don't get him a sucker at the grocery store.

When he doesn't get to play at the park on the way to get the mail.

When he goes down for a nap.

When he wakes up from his nap.

When I try to make him eat. That's right. Eat. Like eat anything.

Where in the world did he learn this? He's two. He doesn't even know what kill means. Last night Jason kept trying to have a serious talk with him and explain, "That's not a nice thing to say. We don't say that." Which was all quite comical to watch since Rhett was hiding behind the see through curtains in the kitchen shreiking in a truly terrified voice, "Don't Kill Me!!" over and over again. What brought this rage on? A grilled cheese sandwich and apples.

I can deal with this little issue at home, but I am seriously thinking of never venturing out in public with him again.

I asked him where he heard that word. He said, "Simba." So this all boils down to the Lion King. No more Lion King for Rhett.

I'm sure all you parents out there have had your children say embarassing things in public so let's hear them!

Wednesday, September 1, 2010

What an amazing sister you are! Happiest Birthday wishes Makenna! Here's a cake that's fun and classy! Just like you! And here is one to enjoy! Love you.

Friday, August 27, 2010

Lake Cleveland

Here we are at Lake Cleveland and everyone is across the lake on the upper end. We had 3 of Justin and Patricia's kids while they were in Scotland and Logan and Machelle and their 2 boys. We had a picnic and enjoyed the wild flowers. Some of us got a shower while here as a gift from Logan. Some people never quite get rid of all of the little kid in them. (That is not all bad.)
The boys enjoyed throwing rocks in the water. You can see Tyler in the background has just thrown one in and Trevin is just getting ready to as Logan splashes him with a big rock. Trevin was not happy cause he got soaked.



As you can see by this photo, Logan is giving Machelle a shower. The rock is just entering the water. The photographer did a great job.








These are some of the flowers in bloom up by Lake Cleveland. It seems like they are later than usual this year.

Tuesday, August 17, 2010

For those who can not see my blog, here is an update

What a night. And what blessings the Lord has given me. Many thanks to everyone's prayers. That is the only way, I believe, that things could have taken such a miraculous turn. At 6 p.m. last night I had chest pain and heaviness that lasted for two hours. Texted my cardiology nurse and she advised to call the on-call cardiologist at the hospital. The cardiologist was paged, spoke to me on the phone, and advised he would call the ER for me and I should go in. I was ticked. I hate going to the ER just as much as anyone else. I took a book, a bottle of water and the assumption that I would be sitting in the ER with moaning, coughing, sneezing, wheezing, bleeding people for hours and hours.
I checked in, which only took about 5 minutes, that took me right to the vital station. They took me right back to get an EKG, which showed blockage, right bundle branch to be exact and depressions. The depressions worried them because it could be ischemia, which basically destroys the heart muscle. Then they decided to do blood work. I waited about 20 minutes to be taken back to triage. So AWESOME!!!! I was in a pretty good mood, all things considering. (I have decided that I am a germaphobe) Whitney showed up with a ward member to give me a blessing while the man's wife watched Elijah. What an amazing ward family I have!
The blood tests were elevated in relation to a clot, so they did a chest scan. I had the following done:
numerous EKG's, 2 different blood labs, chest scan, x-ray, ECHO, ultrasound of legs, stress test (in which they put the treadmill up to a 18% incline and had me jogging at a 5 - they joked that I almost broke their machine and that I did 50% more than someone my age in terms of aerobic - I felt pretty good!) I had two IV's put in. One was put in by a med student, and at the same time a nurse decided to put another one in my other arm. During the chest scan, the contrast that makes you feel like you wet your pants (LOL) started leaking everywhere instead of going into the IV and into my veins. I looked at my arm and it was saturated in blood and contrast. The IV of the med student had not been tightened down, therefore, all the pressure of the contrast popped off the IV and released pints (not really - exaggerating a bit) of blood all over the bed and my arm. Oh well.
They did the scan again.
I got admitted into the cardiology floor at 2 and fell asleep at 3. Woken up by cardiologist at 4. He advised that the chest scan definitely showed a clot in my lung that had moved from my leg, through my heart and stopped in the lung. It was just small enough to avoid a pulmonary embolism (scary - did you know those are fatal?! That shocked me into reality) and said the nurse would be giving me a shot in the abdomen of an anticoagulant. (which has now swollen and is black and purple - but that is the least of my concerns.) He advised I would be on the shot for 1 week, be in the hospital probably until tomorrow, and have pills of the meds for 3 months. Possibility of internal bleeding with meds, but rare, unless the levels are way off.
So I tried to go to sleep. Slept with the interruption of hospital nightmares for the rest of the night until about 6:30 a.m.
Had the aforementioned tests done. About 11 ( I think) a.m. three cardiologists came into the room and advised that - miraculously - it looks like the clot is gone. This is where the miracle of the priesthood comes into play and all the prayers of my friends and family.
That's when the doc's decided to do the leg tests to make sure there were no other clots. Everything checked out fine and I was released to come home.
Thank you mom for hounding me to go in last night. I know I am stubborn, but you definitely know best! (Mental note - listen to my mom more! She is a wise woman :) )
I am home, they are not putting me on the meds, thank goodness! and I am healthy and happy. I have a great love for the Savior and Heavenly Father. They have brought many miracles into my life and have saved my life countless times!
Love you all!

More tests

Last night the blood clot showed up in Rochelle's lab work and on her xray. They treated her with medication last night and the clot has "disappeared" this morning. It was originally thought to be just shy in size of a pulmonary embolism. The doctors believe they must have misdiagnosed her. We believe it was a lot of prayers and blessings from our Heavenly Father. They will be doing an ultrasound now of her legs to make sure they didn't miss something there. She had a stress test and echo done this morning. Her stress results came back as wonderful. She will be following up with an adult congenital defect cardiologist after she is released. Hopefully they can figure out how to treat her arrhythmias, blockage, and myocardial ischemia and get her back in tip top shape.

Rochelle Update

Hey everyone...I don't know if you have all been reading Rochelle's blog about the monitoring and problems she's been having lately with the rhythm of her heart, etc. I'm not really an expert on what's going on, but she explains a lot of it on her blog.

Last night she was having heaviness in her chest. When she laid down it felt like someone was sitting on her chest, so she went to the ER. And they found out she has a common blockage, right bundle branch block, I think. It's usually found in the elderly. She also has ischemia. They did a blood test and found a clot in her lung, and will be putting her on blood thinners.

Today they'll do an echo and some other tests. We'll keep you posted on what else they find out. Any prayers would be appreciated!

Sunday, August 1, 2010

Big Kay Reunion

At Dane's riverhouse we had quite a wild time. Here you see the 3 wise guys at the rail overlooking the "Kay Games" where almost anything is legal. We sure had a great time and enjoyed spending time together and laughing and planning. This is what families are all about when cousins can get to know each other and give support for what they each face.
Just look at these fine specimens, straining at the bit and look at Stacey trying to map a strategy to win by cheating. The 2 fine young studs at the end, though one is hairless, will undoubtedly put in a fine showing.

Just look at these trained athletes and the effort they expend. They move with such grace and fluidity. None of them are competitive, no not at all!!! Look at Sam and Rach's faces. Even my daughters-in-law cause pride to fill my bosom.


Here DAne is performing with rythmes penned only a few moments ago. He is lucky we ate all of the fruit before his turn came up. I must admit he did quit well at embarassing most of the family with painful memories. Notice there will be no pictures of Bob's family's golden performance because our camera sat idle at the side of TODD. The sordid story of Bob Bob Black Sheep will rest in peace.



Holy Cow!!! I mean, what can one say about this picture? Seans family assaulted "Iensy Weensy Spider" with a gusto normally reserved for the pub and with as few inhibitions. Arizona must make allowances for some people. The waterspout, spider, rain and the FAIRY dancing sun left us breathless.




The "OLDEST" brother's family and their tribute to "3 Blind Mice" was almost a show stopper. I mean the rest of us almost were too embarassed to continue. From the farmers wife's super renditions to the lamentable "tail-whacked" mice capers it was forgetable.



This group was paid a lot of money to look entertained during the skits. They actually pulled it off. There were some good laughs.






While DAve and Sandy were on assignment cleaning the temple, their crew took over reciting illusions of poetry about family follies which brought unfond memories and laughs. Why does Lance look so pleased?



This is just plain painful. While the girls are doing an admirable job, here Stacey is trying to lead them astray with wonder-water. What is that thing you have on dude or duddette? Jack and Jill will never be the same.



While the rest of the "responsible" (if that is possible) family members were doing their skits, a certain "out-law" brother-in-law stole away some soles and bought some fish. They would have us believe they caught them and compound the problem by exaggerating how heavy they were.

GO FISH!

No sir Brett, you did not hit it that far! Whack that sucker Whitney!

The golf produced mostly losers with Mark and Chavis winning the long drives and Dane winning one closest to the pin holes. Can't remember the other close winner but just know it wasn't me.



Next year let's not invite Mr pukes!!! By my count, out of 70+ people there was only about 8-10 who did not get sick.

Wednesday, July 14, 2010

Introducing Rocky Balboa



This is what happens when Paige is learning how to drive a power wheels jeep and Avery decides she is going to stand up and let the wind blow through her curly hair. Then suddenly "WHAM" face first into the trampoline pole, o but thats not all. There are other kids jumping on said tramp and due to the speed Avery's is thrown under the tramp and her cheek is then pinched by a spring. I hear Rachael screaming. Hospital, hospital. Ahhhh summertime. Fortunately she is on the mend and still smily and happy as ever.

Friday, July 9, 2010

No Girls Allowed!




Well, we had our 20 week ultrasound yesterday and the results are in......there will be no grand daughters in the Bob Kay family just yet! That's right, we're having two BOYS! We are so excited and just can't wait until November! I'm gearing up for lots of fights, broken windows, and contact sports. Things with the the pregnancy so far have gone smoothly and we're keeping our fingers crossed that they will continue to. At my appointment yesterday when the doctor measured my belly she said I'm currently measuring what someone pregnant with just one would be measuring at 25 weeks, so I'm getting quite the belly! (the picture doesn't do it justice) I'm a little nervous to see just how big I get, and I think the only thing that will save me is the simple fact that I AM the amazing torso woman!
Thanks again to everyone for the prayers and support. We have the best family ever!!!! Love you all!

Thursday, July 1, 2010

Facelift

Decided to make some much needed updates to the blog. Hopefully ya'll approve.

I'm almost done with the cookbook after like forever. I'll let you guys know when they're available for purchase. The more ordered at one time, the bigger the discount. I'm going to try to get them ready this next week so they could maybe be shipped by the reunion.

Wish we could be there with everyone. I'm sure we're gonna miss out on some great skits! :( Bummer. We will most likely be up during the Burley fair for my class reunion so I'll keep you guys posted on our plans.

Love you guys!

PS Shannon.....where are you??? I need an update and pics!!!

Happy Birthday Rochelle

Liebe Rochelle,

herzlichen Glückwunsch zum Geburtstag!


Happy Birthday, dear sister!

Have a wonderful day and let Whitney spoil you!!!

I miss you!! L.Y.L.A.S.!

Mareike

Tuesday, June 22, 2010

Bob Kay Reunion

Herding cows
hiking to Halverson and lizards in the rocks

herding cow relay



Trevyn branding his cow with CK for crazy kays


shooting and safety




We had our family reunion at Justin and Shannon's in Kuna and had several fun activities. Thursday night we hiked into Halverson Lake and fished and hiked out in the dark. We hiked back in again on Saturday morning and the little boys loved the lizards and toads. We caught bluegill and a few bass. At the house we played some games like "herding cows, branding, and cowboy dress-up relay". We also had a gun safety and shooting for the older boys and the girls made some jewelry.

Sunday, June 20, 2010

Happy Birthday and Father's Day In One!

Happy Father's Day to all you father's out there...especially this handsome man who is an amazing father and husband! Love you! And to my own father who has always been there for me. And to Grandpa Kay! Miss you and Love you!

And a Happy Happy Birthday to my sweet little Emrie Jane! She is the BIG ONE today! She is so fun and brings us so much joy! Love this sweet smile! What a Great Day!!!!

Saturday, June 12, 2010

SOOOOOOO excited for the reunion! Can't wait :)

Thursday, May 20, 2010


Elijah looks so much like his Grandpa Kay! Two handsome dudes!

Sunday, May 9, 2010


Happy Mothers Day to all the incredible mothers!
Post a comment about your mother or anything you love about being a mother!

Tuesday, May 4, 2010

We're In!!!!!

The wait is finally over...for now. Chad got accepted into NAU Nursing Program this fall...So fo rthe next 2 1/2 years we will be in Flagstaff! We are really really excited...and Emrie..is not quite sure about moving away from Oma, Opa and Graham. :D

Once Chad finishes he'll have his Bachelors in Science of Nursing (he'll be an RN). So...looks like it's back to the snowy winters...(yeah)

Monday, March 29, 2010

Our Sister has Arrived



Mareike is here! Check out our BLOG to see a few fun things we have done over the last week.

Friday, March 26, 2010

Grandpa's Golf lessons


Emrie sat herself in Graham's lap. These two are inseparable.




More golf